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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

~6 Things I Truly Understand at 30 that I didn't in my 20's~

~On November 1st, 2013 I turned 30! Yes, 30.  Believe it or not, I actually had a slight melt-down (crying, sobbing, shortness of breath).  Thankfully, within a couple of days and much needed time with my Mommy, I came to my senses.  I wanted to share with you 6 things that I feel I truly understand now that I am 30 that I couldn't completely wrap my head around in my twenties~

In no such order......

1.  If you continue to try to measure up to everyone else's standards of what success is, you will continually meet a wall of defeat.

2.  Success, 'perfect life', 'perfect career', and 'perfect mate' NEED to be defined by YOU and only YOU!!!

3.  Now that my son is 2 going on 3....the saying that "embrace every moment, because it goes by so fast" is actually 100% true!

4.  F#ck any negativity that comes your way.....people, hype, conversation, news, drama, etc....YOU DON"T NEED IT....and if you find yourself thriving off it...YOU are the one that needs to CHECK YOURSELF!!!

5.  Marriage is work....Marriage is hard-work...and for anyone that says it isn't....they are seriously living a lie.....

6.  Tell your loved ones EVERYDAY how special, awesome, great, kind, and amazing they are because you never know when time is up :)

Thank you!!!